Friday, November 1, 2013

While I was Away

As many of you already know, writing is both exhilarating and a chore at the same time. Let me explain to the rest of you what I mean by "chore."

Over one year ago, I stopped adding new posts to this blog because I was busy writing something far more entertaining to myself and, hopefully, to you. I wish I could explain the story but the time is not right yet. So with the exceptions of my wife and my brother, I have told nobody about this work.

That, my friends, is in itself a giant accomplishment because I was never the type who could keep a secret...not even for a minute.

Presently, the work I finished is in the stage of being proofread and edited for publishing. Billie, my wife, for those of you who didn't know, is a professional in the field of publishing.

Even though this story has ended, the work in getting it to the proper channels that market it has not started. It is a long and tedious process. So, stay tuned.

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Saturday, October 5, 2013

My Wild Irish Prose

Everytime I sit here in front of the computer, my eyes travel to a small grey and white sharp stone that rests atop my scanner. It's really nothing out of the ordinary, but it holds a library of memories for me each time I see it.

The stone came from across the Atlantic ocean or as the Brits would say, "across the pond." Yes dear reader, this little grey and white stone with the razor sharp edges was once a part of the land where my ancestors lived. You and I know it as Ireland.

Now when I see it I always think of the vacation Billie and I spent there. More specifically, I dream of the days when I returned to our room and talked about the sights we saw and the adventures we chronicled on our ipads and cameras.

The first day we were in Limerick, my cousin, Michael, prepared a huge meal with family and friends at his house in the countryside of Tulla.  When I saw the faces of the people who greeted me, I understood how my uncle Eddie felt when he was warmly welcomed to Ireland over fifty years ago.

Paddy Spaight, (my grandfather), tended bar as his first job in America. Here he is about sixty years later at Gallagher's in Brooklyn. He made me the same drink (cherry juice) each time mom and dad took me to see him. He was a happy man.
Michaels dad, Thomas, a rudy looking gent with an envious crop of white hair appeared extremely happy and resembled his uncle Paddy, my grandfather who passed away forty or more years ago.



Michael King (son of Mary Spaight King) and nephew to Paddy Spaight
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That first night after I was digesting a delicious meal of mushroom soup, potatoes, and lamb, I sent all my friends back in the states an update of my first day in Ireland. I was amazed at the number of responses, comments, and likes I was getting after only a few minutes online. It felt as if so many back home were taking the trip to Ireland with me.

The weather on the first day was grand. Blue skies and picturesque fluffy clouds shaded me and the golden sun warmed me - all without a hint of the rain I was expecting.
It was an ideal day to roam the streets with family.

Noreen, Debbie, and Michael, went with Billie and myself to the Frank McCourt Museum.

Frank McCourt was an Irish pulitzer-prize winning author of the book "Angela's Ashes" which is his memoir as a child growing up in the poverty-sticken section of Limerick.

The tour is a stroll through the Quays and Lanes where Frank lived as a child. It begins at the Civic Center(near the Shannon river) and ends here at the museum.

Bronze bust of the famed Irish author

This woman was in charge of the museum and designed the bust  of  Frank McCourt (see above)

This is a drawing of Frank's mother, Angela.

One of the many awards on display at the museum

Me (Paddy Spaight), my cousin, Noreen, Billie, and my cousin Michael
Mary Kerin Spaight (cousin) is the daughter of  Martin Spaight son of Michael, brother to Paddy my grandfather. Mary lives in SixMileBridge, Co. Clare with her family 

Debbie Simons, cousin

Mairtin, cousin and son of Mary (pictured above)


Michael Killeen King, cousin

Orla Killeen, Michael's wife

Orla and Noreen

Shauna Kerin, cousin and daughter to Mary (pictured above)

Debbie (cousin), me, Noreen (Debbie's mum), and cousin Michael. It's hard to believe, when I see this picture, that the lovely people above were only FaceBook friends a year ago. Now I feel as if I knew them all my life - meeting them is my greatest irish blessing.


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Wednesday, May 22, 2013

If you are interested in a new view of religion and current events; visit:

http://billiespaight.blogspot.com/p/the-populist-pope.html

This is my wife's blog on Pope Francis.


Tuesday, May 21, 2013

Jack and the toy factory

My brother Jack is special. He's not like any other brother in the world. One of a kind- that's what he is, Jack is one of a kind.

I don't mind telling you, and Jack doesn't mind me saying, he is a lot smaller than I am. A lot. Sometimes people pick on him for being that way, but more so because of his color. My brother is green, sort of a teal green to be exact. But I think the reason some people pick on him has nothing to do with his height or even his color. Ya' see my brother Jack is a lump of clay. A small cube of teal green clay.

O he has lips and hair and a nose and two eyes, but when you look up close, they're all made of green clay too. When he smiles, and he's always smiling, the thin line of putty below his nose bends down, and when he blinks, well, to be honest, I don't remember him ever blinking. But, whenever he walks, I mean moves, he's sort of sluggish. I guess the reason for that is because Jack doesn't have any legs. He's just a small green cube of clay, and I don't care in the least. I love him no matter what 'cause he's my brother.

Well, anyhow, let me tell you all about Jack and the toy factory. It all happened a long time ago and if my memory serves me correctly it started something like this. . . .

Both of us were so excited because we finally got tickets to visit the old toy factory that recently opened its doors for tourists and other sightseers. We took the subway and got off at Fifth Avenue in the heart of Metropolis. It was a gloomy day, and I was hoping we wouldn't get lost once we left the station. After all Metropolis is kinda big and even bigger for kids.

I didn't have to worry—the old toy factory was right next to the subway exit. It was a big building that was shaped like a medieval castle. The old toy factory even had one of those things that surround it. . .uh, a moat, that's the word. There was a moat that surrounded it. Jack and I stood in the long line outside the old toy factory and waited for it to open. That's when we saw this really big ramp lower across the moat. Everyone there backed up a little until the steel gate raised to allow them to enter. I started to walk across on the wooden ramp, and Jack bounced along beside me.

Inside, I looked around at the rough grey stone walls; some were darker than the others, and the windows—wow—the windows! The windows were made of all different colored glass, almost like the ones you see in churches. But it was different. Instead of pictures of saints or other religious scenes, these windows were designed to depict the old toy factory's most popular toys.

After staring at a yellow Tonka truck on one of the windows, Jack and I moved forward among the hundreds of tourists, still unable to find anybody making toys. I frowned at this, but Jack kept smiling. I'm sure he was saddened by the fact that the factory was void of any toy making, but he smiled. Seems the chill of the old factory and the draftiness had froze his lips into a permanent smile.

"Hey look, "I heard someone shout, "there's an elevator against the wall!"

Immediately, people began to rush toward the wall with the elevator. They pushed and shoved, and many started to shout. It was crazy. Someone knocked me to the ground and, in the rush, another person almost stepped on my brother.
I got up as fast as I could and stood close to Jack as we waited for the elevator door to open. All of a sudden, the lights started to dim. Then, I heard a bell, and some voice from over our heads bellowed: "Elevator to the basement. All aboard."

Then I saw a strange sight and it was unsettling, to say the least. Something had changed when the lights dimmed. All the tourists who rushed to the elevator—the same people who knocked me down and almost crushed my brother—changed. They shrank and were dressed as toy soldiers. Each and every one of them was now wearing a big black fluffy hat—the kind worn by the English guards. These soldiers also wore red jackets with epaulets on their shoulders, golden buttons, black dress pants, and shiny black shoes.

They weren't the only change I noticed—the elevator had shrunken in size. When Jack and I got closer, I saw two small factory workers push many "toy soldier" tourists into the small elevator.

When the bell rang, after the elevator returned empty, the rest of the tourists were pushed inside. Jack entered easily and positioned himself in the back of the car. After the double doors closed, leaving me behind, I shrugged. "O, my goodness," I said, and added: "How do I see the factory? I can't fit in that elevator." I was starting to get frightened. It was the same awful feeling I got whenever I was lost. It was a sensation of complete loneliness, like nobody will find me. Ever.

"Take this," a deep and friendly voice bellowed. I looked to the side of the elevator and below the window designed with pictures of Tonka trucks, I saw an older man with white hair. He was smiling at me and sitting on an old wooden bench attached to a ski lift.

"Here, Jim," he said. I was both surprised and a bit frightened that he already knew my name. "Here, Jim," he repeated pointing to the wooden bench he was on. When he got up, the bench moved forward. There was a metal rod that was attached to the left side of the bench and raised skyward to a pulley high above it.

The old man smiled again and pointed to the bench that was slowly approaching me. "Jim," he said, "use this if you wanna see the factory downstairs. I use it all the time."

As soon as I sat on it, the bench rose higher and began to move forward, then it turned left, passing the tiny elevator until it reached closed double doors.

I must have set off a signal somewhere, because both doors opened, and I entered a dark shaft. The bench stopped moving forward and I could feel myself being lowered into nothingness. Of course, I started to get a bit nervous, that is, until another set of elevator-type double doors opened in front of me, and the bench I was on started to move forward again.

After my eyes refocused, I saw a great and vast room in front of me. It seemed to go on forever. I sat on the bench, which was high above the busy machinery down below. In the middle of the long room, I saw a working conveyor belt, similar to ones on supermarket checkout counters. It was there that I saw a metal chute sporadically empty toy parts onto the belt. When all the parts landed, the belt advanced though an enclosed box. Another chute moved toward the box and emptied more parts. I saw screws and nuts and a few batteries fall into the box until the belt started off again, and the crude formation of a toy was visible.

While I was sitting on the bench (which was like a ski lift), high above the factory floor, I saw the red, white , and blue tourists who were walking alongside the dangerous conveyor belt. In their midst, I saw a tiny green cube struggling to keep up with the crowd.

"Jack!" I shouted, and all the tourists looked up at me.

"Where's my brother?" I asked them. "He was with you all, just a second ago!"

I looked for Jack, but he was nowhere to be found, and I was quickly becoming very worried.

"Jack," I called out again. "Jack, are you there. . .Jack. . .Jack!"

Someone in the crowd shouted back: "What's Jack look like?"

"Well, he's green, small, shaped like a cube, and always smiling," I shouted, "O yeah. I forgot. . .he's made out of clay."

Just then, everyone heard a frail-sounding voice echo from inside one of the metal enclosed boxes on the conveyor belt. Everyone twisted their bodies and remained motionless. The only sounds remaining were the metallic clanging of machine parts and the clicking of ball bearings as they hit each other inside the conveyor-belt pulleys. There wasn't a sound of my brother anywhere. My guess was that someone might have inadvertently bumped Jack on the belt and then he must have gotten trapped in one of the boxes where toy parts were collected.

I felt my chest shake when I tried to breathe, and I froze with fear, unable to speak. I could only turn my head. But, when I did, my eyes fell on three factory workers who were making rubber basketballs.

"Hey," I struggled to speak, "could you guys inflate a cube to make me another brother?" Obviously, I was delirious. Still, I pleaded with the workers.

"Well," one of them said,"we're not supposed to." "He's right," another worker explained,"it's against company policy, and all." "And if we did," the third worker emphasized, "we'd probably lose our jobs."

I was prepared to beg, when a few red, white, and blue tourists approached the scene and began to growl. "Hey, what's it gonna be?" they barked: "One less toy basketball or one less brother?"

The three workers looked at each other in shame and proceeded to cast and inflate a small rubber cube.

I jumped from the "ski lift," which vanished into thin air and walked over to the factory workers to help paint the cube teal green. After we finished, I thanked them all and one worker said he remembered a time when he worked with four brothers instead of three. The others nodded in agreement.

I never went back inside that toy factory. It closed its doors for good a little while after I left it. Now the moat is all dried up, and the pretty windows are covered by large heavy planks of wood. Sometimes, when I reminisce, I like to walk by that old toy factory. Sure, the windows are boarded up like I told you, but there is one spot that a plank doesn't quite hide. So, if you look real hard, and if the sun hits it right, you can still see the part of the yellow Tonka truck and it sometimes looks like the old toy factory is winking at you.

Now make no mistake, I know that my brother is gone. I'm no fool. But I treat the new Jack almost like the old Jack. Kind of proud of him too, come to think of it. He's into basketball which is no surprise and even played in a few big league games. Every time I see him, I can't help but remember the old Jack, my favorite small green cube of clay with a smile that would never go away.

Happy Birthday, Jack
Love,
Jim



Sunday, March 31, 2013

Whew! That was a close one!

There are quite a few things that I want to give thanks for today. Now I know I should be doing this on Thanksgiving rather than on Easter but you know what they always say-- better late than never.

Last June Billie, my wife took a spill and injured herself. Many of you know this so I'm not going to describe the entire incident here all over again. I would, however , like to thank all of you out there who helped me go throught this. And it is still a continuing process. It may be quite some time before I can see Billie shake a leg on the dance floor. Maybe she'll try at Jesse and Pete's wedding. Who know's.

Nancy and Chris, I am so happy you were able to rebuild after Sandy so harshly and bitterly destroyed your home. I know if I was able, I would have helped you Chris. Still I, like you, are extremely grateful that many other loved ones stepped up to help. I'm sure this catastrophe was unbearable at times but I pray it made your family bond much more tighter-- if that was ever possible.

I really relieved to hear that my workaholic brother, now has regular working hours. I was starting to get a little concerned about him working so hard and for so many hours. So many times I've seen the poor man nod off at the end of a party from sheer exhaustion. I know Joanne was concerned as well.
Thank you Metro Energy for giving my brother, Jack, his life back. We missed you at times.

Helen, I mean "Mom", it is always good and even heart-warming to see and talk with you. You have been a protector of mine when I needed it the most. I will always be grateful and love you for that. So thank you for helping me during the bad times when I felt I shouldn't be helped. You were a rock. And if I hadn't said these two words before, let me shout it out here now, "Thank You!" My wish for you is that you should feel as good as you have made others feel.

There is more people to thanks but I have to run . . .


Sunday, March 24, 2013

Hello all,

Sorry I haven't written in such a long time. I've been involved with a much larger project--larger than this blog.
And I'm not even one fourth done with it. It has taken persistence and that is a trait that I do not have in great supply.

Nevertheless, I need to tell you, my friends, I received an unexpected email from a Mike Slattery and I had to investigate. I know a lot of you out there are asking yourself the same thing I asked myself when I first got this particular email. Namely, "Who the beejeesus is Mike Slattery?" and why is he writing to "Paddy?"

Well Mike is an avid enthusiast of Ancestry.com just like I used to be. Your read correctly, "I used to be."-- Remember I said I had a problem with persistence?  Well, I dropped Ancestry, like I stopped playing guitar and making scrapbooks, and glass etching, and computer art and a lot more.

Mike said something that made me want to go back to researching my family tree. He said he had several names in his tree that were linked with my great great grandfather, Daniel Spaight. He sent me the names of all my great great grand uncles and aunts-- Daniel Spaight's siblings.

Now my tree was getting more interesting and I immediately went about to prove Mike wrong, but I couldn't. He was correct. So I am happy to announce to many of you, some of whom are my close relatives, we have a bigger family than previously thought. Daniel had seven brothers and sisters, some stayed in County Limerick, some went to County Clare, one entered the Sisterhood in Scotland, and the rest came to various parts of America.

I'll tell you more when I find out.

For the time being, be well, and stay away from dangerous icy patches.

Love
Jim (Paddy)

Saturday, February 9, 2013

Be honest. Do you really like snow?

Raise your hands out there if you don't like snow. You know the white powdery stuff that you used to play in when you were a kid. That's right, it's the very  same form-shaping crystals that we made snowballs and snow people from.

C'mon, don't be bashful, nobody is looking at you. You're all alone on the  internet, for goodness sakes. Admit it and get those hands up if you don't like snow.

Ah!! That's better. . . let me count.

One . . .two . . .three . . .THREE!!!

Three people out there don't like snow!!! Three, no four people including myself don't like snow. No, I must have miscounted. Let's see. . . one, two, and . . .three. Unbelievable! Now I know how Al Gore (same guy who invented the internet) felt when he started his campaign on global warming-- veeery lonely.

Ya know, I was going to write a big thing here on why everyone should hate snow but now it appears like it would garner support by only three of you out there.

Crap.

Saturday, January 19, 2013

Ginger Baker and Me

Every now and again I sit back and close my eyes to reminisce about that day I bonded with one of the premier drummers of the late nineteen sixty's and early seventy's, the rock and roll legend, Ginger Baker. 

First, I have to let you in on a small fact.  That is, my definition of the word "bond" is vastly different than the meaning Mister Webster has offered in his dictionary.

Here's my definition of the word "bond":

" Bond, verb - to annoy, to pester, to stalk and to otherwise be a pain in the ass
Sorry for the interruption, let's return to the story.

It begins thirty years ago, give or take a few years when three of my work buddies and myself escaped our daily grind and deemed a few hours of pure musical entertainment was in order.  We were all rock and roll fans and we knew that one of the icons of rock would be performing three blocks from our job.  Ginger Baker was billed to play at Central Park, more specifically, the Wollman Rink.  When we approached the  concert area we saw it was mobbed and that they were all lost in the music of the opening act already underway.  The electric sounds were clear and pristine unlike larger concert halls where  distortion and echos often blemished the finest performances.  
  
When my friends and I passed through the rink entrance, the crowd was on there feet applauding and shouting as Buddy Miles finished his set.  

I couldn't wait to see and hear Ginger Baker perform live.  He always had a certain look about him when he wailed away on his drums.  Some fans say it was a dazed and stoned appearance, music critics wrote it was his look of intensity, but I believe it was a combination of both.  

Minutes before he took to the stage, the side door to the band shell marked "Staff Only" opened and a small army of roadies poured out.  All of them were wearing faded blue denim jackets extremely similar in color and style to the jacket that I wore as well.  When one of them saw this, they mistook me as one the stagehands and shoved me through the door they had just exited.

One burly looking roadie dropped a circle of black cable in my arms and said,
"Stop moping, we got work to do." Then
he walked away.

Well there I was behind stage at the Wollman Rink with an armful of instrument cable.  And, oh, did I mention my mouth was gaped open all this time?

My mouth opened further , when Buddy Miles walked up to me and patted me on my denim-covered shoulders saying,

"Thanks dude, good job." he said and my mouth opened further still.

Right then and there I realized I had better get the heck out before someone else mistakes me for a musician and straps a guitar around me.  I dropped all the cables, since I didn't know what to do with them anyway and made a bee line for the stage door.

When I walked out into the night filled with shouting teenagers, I approached my friends who were leaning against an exit gate.

One of them said, "Hey, Jim, where did'ya go?  Thought we lost ya there for a second."

"I can't explain, dude. It's too wild." I said after finally closing my gaping mouth.

The cheering of the crowd intensified as a yellow pony-tailed figure appeared behind a 12 piece acrylic drum set.  After the crowd settled down a bit, Ginger wrapped his snare drum a few times to start the classic song "Sunshine of Your Love."  The bass guitar joined in and the crowd went into a frenzy.

After a particularly long and varied drum solo, Ginger's ponytail became undone and he finished hammering away at the drums with his hair whipping all about his sweating face. He looked like a demon on drugs who was keeping a beat.  The sight itself moved the crowd to cheer louder than they had cheered all night.  

After his set, the audience became ecstatic while I however, with the help of  80% proof liquor was transformed into a 100% proof ass.  My eyes were riveted to the stage door exit in the hopes of catching a glimpse of my then favorite drummer. Within a short time or what felt like a short time (remember I was smashed and the whole world seemed like it was moving at 33 1/3 rpm speed) Ginger emerged surrounded by burly bodyguards. Nobody could get near him no matter how much they tried. Except me- for I had a secret plan.  Instead of bull-dogging my way through the herd of guards who surrounded him, I climbed atop Gingers black Lincoln Continental which awaited him. My secret plan was to make an aerial attack. Poor Ginger never knew what hit him. I grabbed a chunk of his red curly long locks and yelped like a madman. The dazed and doped drummer yelped, "The birds have got me, the freaking birds have got me . . ."

Once freed from my grasp, the driver hit the gas and the car began to pick up speed with me holding on to the roof for dear life. 

My ride lasted a few minutes over bumps and two sharp turns. The next turn was a whopper. I lost my grasp and went flying and landed in a large puddle  of mud next to a trash can--without getting a scratch.

When I got up I saw my friends rushing up a hill towards me.  I knew they were going to ask why I acted like a jerk by riding on the hood of the car- but I spoke first. "Did you see that nut on Ginger's car? I tried to catch him but he ran off to fast."

"But, Jim," one of them asked "what's that in your hand?"

I looked down to see a small tuft of red curly locks in my fist."

Last I heard, Ginger Baker now sports a baseball cap to hide a bald spot on the top of his head.

But maybe none of this never happened at all . . . just maybe.



My Grandpa

When I was a young lad I lived with my mom and dad down the block from Prospect Park in Brooklyn. It was always a perk for a child if he or she lived close to any park, but to have lived near Prospect park was a dream irregardless of your age.  I could not find the proper words that truly described that park with all its storied landmarks, crystalline lakes, and lush meadows but my Grandpa could and did.  He only used one single word to describe that park. But it was his favorite word.

Lafayette Memorial entrance to
to Prospect Park
Lake at Prospect Park


"Jimmy, me lad" he would say in his thick and melodious Irish brogue, "let's you and I go to the park.  Yes,  dear child, let's go to Prospect park . . . it's a grand place."

Grandpa's favorite word described a magical land of swings and slides and sandboxes.  Grand painted an image of a field laden with  mint green hills, opulent valleys and cerulean blue waters-- a masterpiece of nature that was always on display. So certainly, as most everyone agreed, Prospect Park was a grand place.

Grandpa
 Paddy Spaight

The years that followed brought a wider smile to grandpa's rosy Celtic appearance with the birth of another grandchild, my brother Jack. Regrettably, I saw less of grandpa's smiles as I moved much further away. Grandpa remained in Brooklyn, still living down the block from the park he introduced me to when I was a mere toddler.

As Jack and I became older, Grandpa visited us to be a part of our birthdays and holidays. If memory serves me correctly, we travelled back to Brooklyn at least twice a month to see grandpa and the rest of our family.

I wish I could see him once more. Grandpa died when I was only ten years old and I wish we had done so many more things together. I wish we had talked even more than we did--there are so many things I want to know now. But I can't-- all I have left are wonderful, teary-eyed memories of me as a little child and my white haired Irish grandfather.

I can still feel your big and rough hand lovingly clasp my little-boy fingers. Oh, grandpa . . . I just want to hold your hand once more . . .